Romantic Compatibility (Synastry) Report*
Gain insight on how to handle problem areas and better appreciate each other.
The Romantic Compatibility Report analyzes the romantic relationship of 2 people, revealing the most significant issues of the relationship.
*Although a report does not supplant an in-depth consultation with William Stickevers, this report will give you the additional level of insight you need for improving your relationship.
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Compatibility Report Contents:
Chapter 1: A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other
Chapter 2: Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together
Chapter 3: Destiny and Final Outcome of Your Relationship
Chapter 4: Other Themes in Your Relationship
ROMANTIC COMPATIBILITY REPORT SAMPLE:
The Compatibility Report for
A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles
that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other
George's Sun in Taurus and Amal's Sun in Aquarius:
While George often takes a practical, down-to-earth, simple approach to life, Amal is more inclined to take a modern, progressive or unconventional approach. This inclines the two of you to often differ on political and social issues as well as have different tastes in art, music, and literature. Amal is more aware of modern trends, and stays more in tune with changing styles and current events, while George stubbornly holds on to the classics. George's interests are more focused, less wide-ranging, and change little over time. This difference in your approach to life is not likely to create serious problems, but it does tend to be annoying at times. You are both stubborn (George is particularly stubborn!), and this can aggravate the problem as you may be unwilling to fully accept and appreciate each other, being unwilling to adapt to your differences.
George's Moon in Capricorn and Amal's Moon in Sagittarius:
Your emotional needs and deeply ingrained attitudes toward life are somewhat at odds with each other. George is a sober realist who tends towards cynicism and pessimism at times. George's security lies in work, accomplishment, and having a solid material foundation. Feelings of self-doubt often limit what George is willing to aim for. Fears of poverty or financial ruin may drive George to work excessively also. Highly responsible and conscientious, George tends to take life too seriously and puts business or duty before pleasure.
Amal, on the other hand, is essentially an optimist with an innate faith in life, a Higher Power, or simply in good luck, which gives Amal the confidence to take risks that George just doesn't feel safe or comfortable taking. George chooses a well-defined, secure, path over one that involves a lot of unknowns. Amal craves adventure, and exploring the unknown is a very real and legitimate need of Amal's. Amal needs to soar in some way (either literally, intellectually, or spiritually) while George needs to have both feet planted firmly on earth.
Also, George has good focus and concentration and the ability to persevere through difficult or dry periods, while Amal is often impatient and flighty. Amal can be too lax, careless, and irresponsible at times. Amal wants to have a good time and sometimes that's all Amal wants!
George is inclined to make a commitment in a relationship and wants a firm commitment in return, while Amal shies away from anything that will restrict freedom of movement and self-expression too much.
Positively, Amal's humor and light touch can help George not to worry so much, and George's realism can ground Amal and temper Amal's impractical enthusiasms.
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together
Sun Mutually Aspects Venus:
It is difficult for you to resist one another. You are charmed by one another and see much in each other that is beautiful, desirable, and attractive. Yours is a warm, affectionate relationship. Quite simply, you make one another happy!
George's Sun Square Amal's Venus:
George is very much aware of Amal's beauty or attractiveness and finds Amal very persuasive and appealing. However, your personal styles, tastes, and preferred leisure activities are often not in harmony, and you need to make adjustments and allowances for one another's differing personal tastes and desires.
Amal's Sun Sextile George's Venus:
Yours is a loving friendship, with much mutual appreciation, affection, and respect. This may grow into a very warm, affectionate love relationship as well.
George's Sun Opposition Amal's Uranus:
This relationship changes course suddenly and unexpectedly. There is a great deal of unpredictability to the relationship. At best, your relationship is exciting and unconventional, and at worst it leaves George frustrated by Amal's unwillingness to be more committed and devoted to the relationship. The unpredictable nature of the relationship and the lack of constancy and security may cause either, or both, of you to feel very uncomfortable.
George's Moon Conjunct Amal's Mercury:
You enjoy long, intimate conversations, confiding in each other, sharing your inner feelings and thoughts. You enjoy "psychoanalyzing" each other and others as well. At worst, this can degrade into gossip and at best it can provide a depth of mutual understanding and self-discovery that is enlightening, nourishing, and refreshing.
George's Moon Opposition Amal's Mars:
This is a "hot" relationship. Sexual and physical attraction is strong, tending to lead to hot pursuit of each other. Subtlety is lacking and one, or both, of you may feel your approach to sexuality is too aggressive or insensitive. You also enjoy competing with each other and working hard together. Competitive sports, games, and outdoor activities are good outlets. You must strive to avoid conflict because the aggressive quality of your relationship can easily flare into anger and hostility.
Amal's Mercury Conjunct George's Saturn:
You two can have serious communication problems. George can help Amal clarify and define ideas, but very often ends up criticizing or belittling them instead which makes Amal doubt, withhold, or simply be quiet. George needs to be very careful not to interrupt, ignore, or judge Amal when Amal is speaking. Also, your conversations tend to focus on serious topics or practical affairs and business, which can become dull for one or both of you.
Amal's Mercury Opposition George's Mars:
Stimulating conversations or hot debates characterize your relationship. George challenges Amal's ideas with vigor. Amal may respond by doing the same in return. Although these challenges and criticisms are made with good intentions, they easily precipitate arguments. Both of you must be careful to respect each other's beliefs and not belittle each other's views or your relationship will deteriorate into feelings of mistrust, nasty tempers, and the bad habit of throwing darts at each other.
Amal's Mars Opposition George's Saturn:
George frequently takes a cautious or cool attitude towards Amal's personal goals or desires, and Amal is likely to feel constrained and limited by George's cautiousness. Many times the two of you simply cannot agree on how to achieve long-range goals. However, these problems are balanced by your ability to jointly focus on tasks of an immediate practical nature and to persevere until you successfully complete them. Try not to take your joint responsibilities too seriously or to be too pessimistic and skeptical about how the two of you can meet your goals.
On another level entirely, Amal’s physical drives and passions may be restrained, denied full expression or frustrated by George. Anger can easily build up to toxic level if grievances are not aired frequently.
George's Sun Square Amal's Sun:
Your relationship is dynamic and energizing. You challenge each other to grow and develop, but unfortunately the process tends to be abrasive and frustrating. The differences in your personalities that are described at the beginning of Chapter 1 deserve careful reading and attention because if not understood and handled properly, they can lead to mutual frustration.
Amal's Asc. Square George's Pluto:
George is a force for considerable benefit or harm in Amal's life, either greatly enhancing Amal's personal power and confidence, or seriously undermining it. George forces Amal to examine the hidden motives and intentions behind Amal's actions, and may bring out some unsavory aspects of Amal's character or past history.
An intense confrontation of wills, often going on in a subtle, behind-the-scenes way, characterizes your interaction at times. It is very likely that there is much "unfinished business" of an emotional or personal nature which draws the two of you together, and may bind you in a powerful love-hate, "can't live with him, can't live without him" relationship.
Amal's Asc. Trine George's Jupiter:
George makes Amal feel more optimistic and self-confident, and encourages humor, play, and freer self-expression in Amal. You both feel more expansive and relaxed in one another's company which makes the time you spend together easy, enjoyable, and rejuvenating.
Amal's Moon Trine George's Venus:
There is a particularly sweet, loving, caring quality to your relationship that both of you may tend to take for granted. Others, who lack this quality in their own relationship, do notice it and may enjoy the kindness and devotion you have for each other. You both find it easy to give freely to each other.
Destiny and Final Outcome of Your Relationship
Composite Sun Trine Mars:
Together, you will be dynamic, energetic, bold, and able to accomplish a great deal. You may find that spending a lot of time together gives you more energy and more desire to do and to achieve. You excel together in athletics, vigorous outdoor activities, and the like.
Part of the essence of your relationship has to do with fostering confidence and a positive, active approach to life. You enable each other to be assertive, and to feel proud of yourselves and your achievements.
Composite Sun Trine Neptune:
Unselfishness, tolerance, and forgiveness flow readily between you, helping to ease and ameliorate any problems you face together. Your relationship has a strong idealistic and platonic quality. Even if you are involved sexually, the focus with the two of you is not primarily physical, but subtle, soulful, and spiritual in nature. You have high standards for your friendship and may expect yourselves or one another to be the Perfect Friend, all-giving and always impeccable in your dealings with each other. For the most part you both try to live up to these lofty images, and to not taint your relationship with selfish or mundane considerations.
The psychic tie is strong between you, too. You may experience an unusual ability to "read" one another, send messages to one another telepathically, and so on. Any interest you have in the metaphysical or imaginative arts will be highlighted, and become an important focus in your relationship.
Composite Mercury Opposition Pluto:
Your conversations will reveal to both of you aspects of yourselves that have been hidden - either purposely concealed or long ago denied and buried. Without even trying, the two of you will make the other confront those underlying assumptions, unquestioned beliefs, and ways of thinking which you normally would take for granted. You also find yourselves divulging information, or questioning things which until now you were content to let lie.
Mysteries, secrets, investigating the underside of any issue - these will be a significant part of your relationship. Whether or not you are willing to see and consciously acknowledge some of these things will determine how well you two get along. Part of the purpose of your relationship is to bring to light and conscious understanding those parts of your lives that have not been examined before. For the well-being of both of you, make sure that you do not use the knowledge and information you have of one another as a tool to control or manipulate each other. Especially do not abuse your awareness of the other's psychological weaknesses and vulnerabilities.
Composite Venus Trine Saturn:
This relationship has excellent prospects for longevity and permanent friendship. Ardor and high romance may or may not be included, but certainly constancy of feeling, commitment, and building something valuable together over time will be.
The only drawback to this quality of steadiness which permeates your bond is a tendency to take one another for granted and to rely on each other in an unconscious way. You may forget to celebrate your love or to warmly show your appreciation for your partner, simply because they are always there, and you expect they always will be.
As a couple, you two are able to successfully balance pleasure needs with practical considerations. You may appear rather subdued or frugal to other people, either in the way you spend money or the way you show love for one another. But if you are not seeking a flamboyant love affair, this quieter love may suit you both just fine.
Composite Mars Trine Neptune:
At times just being in one another's presence can put the two of you in a lazy, lackadaisical frame of mind, and certainly you enjoy dreaming about many things that "would be wonderful". At best, you inspire each other to try to live out some of your highest ideals or best dreams.
Working together for the realization of a cherished ideal is favored when you join forces, and this is at least part of the function of your relationship. Thus it would behoove you to clarify your dreams, hopes, wishes, and ideals, and to decide to focus some positive energy toward them. Otherwise, you may flounder.
Composite Sun Opposition Uranus:
While there is potential for tremendous awakening, liberation, and freedom for you both in this relationship, the circumstances which foster these gifts will be unsettling, disorienting, and disruptive to your ordinary way of thinking about things.
This is a relationship that may have struck like lightning out of the blue, and that will always have an element of unexpected surprise, unpredictability, and uncertainty. You will not ever settle down into a peaceful, secure, unchanging pattern with one another. If you both have a taste for adventure, and the capacity to adapt and move with the changes, this can be exciting.
Others may view your way of being with one another as strange, even unnatural, because you don't conform to the "normal" patterns. There may even be a sudden break from a previous relationship or way of life, which shocks everyone around you. Even if the two of you consider yourselves to be fairly conventional, conservative, stable people, being together will shake and overturn a lot of those patterns. This can be creative, freeing - or merely a wild episode that turns you upside down for a while.
Composite Sun Opposition Pluto:
The two of you affect one another profoundly, and will trigger energies and emotions in one another that you may never have realized you were capable of. There may be a love-hate or attraction-repulsion between the two of you, because one of the impulses you evoke in one another is a desire to dominate. Overt power struggles as well as subtle, behind-the-scenes manipulations may undermine your bond. Also, you can feel compelled to know everything about the other and could invade one another's privacy or try to spy into one another's secrets. To be successful as a team, you must respect the other as an equal. Unfortunately, there is apt to be a decidedly unequal balance of power between you. If you are very conscious and respectful of one another, however, you may be able to avoid the more severe imbalances that can cause real trouble. If one of you misuses power against the other, expect a backlash.
This is anything but a superficial relationship. The positive aspect of all of this is that you will come to know each other extremely thoroughly, and a bond will be forged that will not easily be broken.
There is also a fated, unavoidable, "meant to be" quality to your connection. Circumstances beyond your control may have forced you together.
Composite Moon Square Uranus:
The two of you are destined to have a rather unsettling affect upon one another. Your relationship may begin quite suddenly and unexpectedly, disrupting your normal routines and perhaps other relationships you are engaged in. There is an electric excitement between you which can be very thrilling, but also unnerving. Emotional impulsiveness and "acting crazy" together, doing things that are totally out of character or far more radical and daring that either of you would be inclined to do alone, are to be expected.
For a long time you may have an unstable, on-again/off-again connection with one another, and unless there are other stabilizing factors between you, that's all it may ever be.
Composite Mars Sextile Pluto:
Together you will explore how you can best use your competitive or aggressive energies and your anger for constructive purposes. You may do this unconsciously through athletics or even powerful and energetic music. Some type of creative outlet for these energies should be found. Massage or other therapeutic work that involves the body will also hold a fascination for you. The theme of releasing energy and renewing yourselves through this process will be ongoing in your relationship. You may find that your sexual bond has an especially healing effect on both of you.
Other Themes in Your Relationship
George's Sun in Amal's 12th house,
Amal's Sun in George's 12th house:
You have a knack for uncovering each other's hidden or repressed traits, and there is a deep, mysterious, perhaps even mystical quality to your relationship.
George's Moon in Amal's 9th house,
Amal's Moon in George's 9th house:
If your relationship is a long-term one, you will find that you adopt many of the religious beliefs, political and social outlook and attitudes of your partner. Your overall outlook on life becomes extremely similar, which enables you to feel comfortable with each other and have a harmonious relationship.
George's Mercury in Amal's 12th house:
George's conversation, interests, and way of looking at things perplexes Amal sometimes. Nonverbal communication may be more effective than trying to reason with one another.
Amal's Mercury in George's 11th house:
Your intellectual rapport is very good. You share lots of ideas and interests in community affairs, political or social issues, and various clubs and organizations.
George's Venus in Amal's 11th house:
You enjoy going out together and you will develop a love for the same friends, groups, and social activities. As a couple, you are outgoing and friendly, and will meet lots of new people and share many new experiences together.
Amal's Venus in George's 12th house:
Amal seems a bit mysterious to George and George is intrigued and fascinated by Amal, but may lack trust and feel insecure with Amal. It is important to be honest and candid about feelings in this relationship, as there can be hidden feelings. There may also be a strong spiritual, almost mystical affinity for each other.
George's Mars in Amal's 3rd house:
George enjoys challenging Amal's reasoning and logic, and Amal may feel that this relationship is more like a debate club than a romance! If both of you can keep your communication from becoming acrimonious, you can learn a great deal from each other and enjoy a mentally stimulating relationship.
Amal's Mars in George's 5th house:
The two of you make a great match for games, especially outdoor sports. Amal also encourages George to develop creative talents, and you may become involved together in creative projects.
George's Jupiter in Amal's 9th house:
There is sufficient variety and expansiveness in this relationship to keep it interesting for a long time. No doubt you enjoy traveling, vacationing, socializing, and going out together, and the rich variety of experiences that you share together enriches your outlook on life and increases your appreciation of many things that you otherwise tend to be unaware of or uninvolved in.
Amal's Jupiter in George's 4th house:
The warm and nurturing side of George is brought out in this relationship. If the two of you live together, it is likely that you will enjoy a high level of domestic harmony. You enjoy your times at home together and both of you contribute much to making a pleasant home life together.
George's Saturn in Amal's 9th house:
George causes Amal to question personally-held philosophical assumptions, political ideology, and religious beliefs. In fact, George often relishes challenging Amal's views. If you have different beliefs, you will need to adapt to each other! Both of you will develop a more mature and realistic political, philosophical, and religious perspective through this relationship, although the learning process may not always be pleasant or easy. If either of you stubbornly clings to your own viewpoint, and is unwilling to learn from the other, you will gradually grow apart or create a rift in your relationship.
Amal's Saturn in George's 6th house:
If you are married or live together, handling schedules and day-to-day responsibilities can become a major issue and a potential stumbling block. You can lock horns when it comes to deciding who is responsible for preparing meals, cleaning the home, getting the car fixed, making sure all of the bills are paid, mowing the lawn, etc. Amal, in particular, may have the sense of contributing more than half the load, and may resent any complaints by George. Oddly enough, it is likely that together you probably a do a good job at meeting these responsibilities, and very often you work well together. But unresolved disagreements on how to best coordinate your efforts can be a sore point in your relationship.
George's Uranus in Amal's 4th house:
George challenges many of Amal's deeply ingrained attitudes and many of the habits and personal tastes that are developed from early childhood. George often encourages Amal to break free from the past, although this encouragement is often subtle and not overt. George needs to be careful not to overlook the value of Amal's heritage, and you both need to be able to preserve what is good in the past without remaining attached to habitual tendencies that are not fulfilling or healthy.
Amal's Uranus in George's 8th house:
Your courtship undoubtedly took many unusual twists and turns. The attraction between you is powerful, and sometimes the "urge to merge" is almost irresistible. Sexual activity and love-making probably began very early in the relationship. Also, the way you jointly handle finances and investments is likely to take some unusual turns and the two of you may, for example, invest in some risky ventures. Also, if you marry and later divorce, both of you are likely to be surprised by the manner in which you agree to divide your joint resources.
George's Neptune in Amal's 6th house:
Amal is often disappointed in the way that George handles problems and performs various chores and tasks. Amal is likely to feel that George is careless or sloppy. You approach many tasks in a very different manner from each other. This is not likely to create any serious problems, and can even add some interesting variety to your lives.
Amal's Neptune in George's 9th house:
There is a very tolerant, open-minded quality to your relationship, and both of you find that you put each other in an open-minded frame of mind. You enjoy exploring new ideas and viewpoints and you inspire each other's imagination. You enjoy planning and scheming on a big scale together, but be wary of projecting your fantasies on situations and expecting too much from your plans. Avoid joint wild speculations and gambling.
George's Pluto in Amal's 4th house:
A lot of powerful emotions come to the surface in this relationship. Your attachment to each other can be very intense, and the possibility of arousing jealousy or hurt feelings is very strong. Unfortunately, both of you may let the feelings boil for quite a long time before expressing them. You need to be honest and open with each other because otherwise a complex knot of feelings can develop between you, developing into a love-hate relationship.
Amal's Pluto in George's 7th house:
Amal is a very interesting, intriguing, and perhaps even mysterious person to George. There is a strong magnetic attraction between you. You enjoy the intensity of the energy exchange between you, and you may also enjoy competing (in sports or other activities) with each other.
Amal's Sun Square George's Neptune:
You must guard against mutual deception and misunderstandings. Amal tends to have a glamorous and unrealistic view of George, and George has a tendency to unconsciously capitalize on Amal's imaginative and often simply erroneous perceptions. The tendency to be dishonest, hide things from each other, exaggerate, and spur each other to unrealistic hopes and dreams is very strong. Both of you must be able to distinguish fantasy from fact, and utilize the increased sensitivity and heightened imagination that you inspire in each other, without letting it cloud your ability to clearly and realistically see other and understand each other.
George's Asc. Square Amal's Moon:
Irritations over relatively minor incidents and situations, combined with a tendency to have differing tastes, preferences, and interests may make an intimate, long-lasting relationship difficult. You do care a great deal for each other, though, and both of you feel exceedingly bad after a quarrel. If you can be tolerant of each other's differing attitudes, interests, and lifestyles, the negative tendencies of this astrological influence will be minimized.
George's Asc. Trine Amal's Uranus:
George's originality and creativity is sparked by Amal's enthusiasm, eccentricity or "crazy" side. You are both more impulsive when you are together, and more willing to take risks and appear foolish. At the least, this can be lots of fun; at best, it can be very freeing and liberating.
George's Mercury Opposition Amal's Uranus:
You tend to be impulsive and impatient with each other, and misunderstandings can suddenly spill into arguments. You may feel that your partner is not reliable, makes impulsive promises or blurts out things very tactlessly. You can make each other nervous or uptight, for there is a tendency to rush or go at a frantic pace when you are together.
George's Mercury Square Amal's Venus:
You enjoy sharing ideas about the arts, literature, and people but often you fail to understand each other and sometimes reach a complete impasse. Your feelings towards each other are sometimes misunderstood too, with one of you perhaps feeling more romantic and the other person feeling inclined strictly towards friendship without romance. Both of you will have to tolerate different points of view from your partner for this relationship to work successfully.
George's Venus Opposition Amal's Pluto:
Sexual attraction to each other, at times, is extremely intense. These sexual feelings tend to be irresistible or obsessive, and difficult to control or even comprehend. George, especially, feels magnetically attracted or mesmerized by Amal. Powerful subconscious emotional drives come into play, and you may become exceedingly attached to one another, as well as very jealous and manipulative at times.
Amal's Venus Opposition George's Uranus:
This is an unusual relationship! The relationship seems to follows its own, unpredictable course that neither of you can control. At least life isn't boring! Sexual attraction to each other is aroused suddenly and unpredictably, but then it subsides just as quickly and unexpectedly. If your relationship is a permanent one, you will find that periods of intense sexual attraction come and go in waves, and you both will have to be able to adjust to these unpredictable changes. George, in particular, may be erratic, inconstant, or unreliable toward Amal, perhaps unwilling to make a commitment or to keep promises.
George's Venus Trine Amal's Neptune:
You evoke in each other a greater sensitivity to music, art, and poetry, as well as feelings of compassion and sympathy. You find each other fascinating and interesting and you love exploring new dimensions of feeling and sensitivity through music, art, poetry, or religion. There is also a dreamy, romantic quality to the love that you have for each other.
George's Mars Conjunct Amal's Mars:
You energize, stimulate, provoke, inflame, and challenge one another! You can also irritate, anger, fight, push, and drive each other! Together you can accomplish an enormous amount of work, and it is important to you to share vigorous physical activities as an outlet for some of the fire you stir up in one another. Strong sexual desire and physical love are also big factors in your relationship.