Friendship Compatibility Report*
Gain insight on how to handle problem areas and better appreciate each other as friends or business partners.
The Platonic Compatibility Report discovers the most significant issues of the relationship and emphasizes these issues by placing them at the beginning of the report in a separate chapter.
Chapter 1 describes your temperaments and personalities. The issues described in Chapter 1 become particularly powerful if you have a close or long-lasting relationship. Idiosyncrasies or quirks in another person's personality do not bother us as much if our relationship is a casual one. For example, if one person is neat and tidy and the other is sloppy, this is more likely to become a concern if you depend on each other in a business partnership than if you are casual acquaintances.
Pay close attention to the issues described in Chapter 2 because these are the most important themes in your relationship. For example, if themes of open communication and friendliness are emphasized, then you can count on this relationship growing into a close, long-lasting friendship. However, if friendliness and harmony between you are hardly mentioned at all, your relationship will be a more formal, less personal one and you probably won't think of one another as close friends. Note also that the material in Chapter 2 is presented roughly in order of importance, so that the material presented at the beginning of Chapter 2 is the most powerful.
Chapter 4 describes issues in your relationship of less importance than those presented in Chapter 2. Chapter 3 describes situations and circumstances that arise over time if your relationship is a long-lasting one.
To make the most of this report, combine this astrological analysis with other things that you know about each other. For example, if your relationship is strictly business-related and close, personal friendship is unimportant to both of you, then it will not concern you if there is little warmth in the relationship. However, a lack if warmth and sympathy, or a tendency to be critical and judgmental of one another, is a more serious problem in a parent-child relationship. You may also want to order a Natal Report for each of you. The Natal Report describes your individual traits. The material in Chapters 2, 3 and 4 of this report describes the dynamics of your relationship, but does not describe your individual natures.
*Although a report does not supplant an in-depth consultation with William Stickevers, this report will give you the additional level of insight you need for how to build and strengthen your relationship.
Compatibility Report Contents:
Chapter 1: A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other
Chapter 2: Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together
Chapter 3: Destiny and Final Outcome of Your Relationship
Chapter 4: Other Themes in Your Relationship
FRIENDS COMPATIBILITY REPORT SAMPLE:
The Friends Compatibility Report for
A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles
that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other
Tina's Sun in Taurus and Amy's Sun in Virgo:
Both of you are practical and down to earth. Amy is more precise and more of a perfectionist than Tina. Amy is also more easily worried and more inconsistent.
Tina is steadier emotionally than Amy is, and Amy appreciates Tina's consistent nurturing, healing, and soothing qualities. You make very good friends!
Tina's Moon in Libra and Amy's Moon in Leo:
Both of you are personable, friendly, and affectionate, but you are different in many respects also.
Amy is individualistic, proud, and somewhat egotistical, while Tina is more aware of others' needs than Amy is, and more willing to accommodate them. This can be a significant problem for Tina at times - being too obliging, too eager to please, compromising too much. Being indecisive is also a habit of Tina's. On the other hand, Amy is naturally rather self-centered, more dominant, certain, and decisive, and may unintentionally take advantage of Tina's agreeableness. But Tina does have a strong sense of fairness and will resent being the one who gives in all of the time.
Both of you have Mercury conjunct or in hard aspect to Saturn:
Both of you are serious-minded and are prone to worrying, pessimistic thinking, or allowing small problems to loom large in your minds. It's difficult to convince either of you of the potential worth of a plan, without concrete data, factual analysis, or "proof" of its feasibility. You are skeptical, especially of speculative ventures.
You also both tend to dislike a lot of superficial chatter and may be ill at ease with the sort of light, casual, fluffy talk that greases the wheels at most social functions. You may seem critical and standoffish at such events. However, because you both prefer more substantial fare, intellectually speaking, you may well enjoy discussions with one another. At least, you admire the depth of each other's minds.
When you are together, try not to focus on the negative aspects of a situation, for you can reinforce one another's tendencies that way.
Both of you have Venus conjunct, trine, or sextile Jupiter:
Both of you are noble and generous towards friends and loved ones. You each try to support the other's growth and expansion, and promote a feeling of mutual freedom and non-possessiveness towards one another. You are idealistic about love and friendship without being completely unrealistic or deluded about what humans are capable of. You both prefer to see the best in others, and are tolerant and forgiving of the excesses or indiscretions of others.
You both truly enjoy people, parties, and big social events. You share some rather lavish tastes and have a yearning for abundance and ease. Both of you can be a bit lazy also - probably because wealth and other good things come so easily to you.
Both of you have Venus conjunct or in hard aspect to Pluto:
Both of you can be quite possessive, jealous, and intensely attached to and involved with your friends. Elements of subtle manipulation or emotional blackmail may enter into this relationship at times. Both of you are drawn to rather willful, intense people, which may be why you are drawn to one another. You both have much to learn about giving freely and allowing your friends to have a life, separate from you! There may be a love-hate or attraction-repulsion quality to your relationship at times.
Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together
Sun Mutually Aspects Venus:
You put each other in a good mood. You are kind, considerate, and warm to each other. You enjoy discussing the arts and there is a high probability that you will join together in an artistic project or activities with a strong aesthetic quality.
Tina's Sun Trine Amy's Venus:
Yours is a congenial and enjoyable relationship, for you both appreciate and like one another. You also share a similarity in tastes and enjoyment of leisure activities and pleasures.
Amy's Sun Square Tina's Venus:
Your personal styles, tastes, and preferred leisure activities are often not in harmony, and you need to make adjustments and allowances for one another's differing personal tastes and desires.
Sun Mutually Aspects Pluto:
This is a very intense and complex relationship! You draw out the inner, hidden side of each other and your interactions are invariably intense, direct, and never superficial. Powerful passions, ego drives, and the hidden darker side of your personalities are revealed through your interaction. You also spur and challenge each other to excel and you may become an unbeatable team, working for a lofty goal or very deep, personal, creative expression. Be wary of a tendency to be competitive or jealous of each other, for the respect that you have for each other quickly turns to envy if you ever feel like you are competing rather than cooperating with each other.
Tina's Sun Trine Amy's Pluto:
Amy helps Tina achieve personal goals, activate Tina's latent talents and strengths, and encourages and promotes Tina's creative work and endeavors. You can be a very successful duo. However, Amy can be more driving and ambitious for Tina than Tina is, like the "stage mother" who pushes her child to shine and to excel even when it is not the child's own aspiration. Amy can have a profound influence on Tina, most likely for the good, but possibly not. Subtle manipulation and domination on Amy's part should be avoided.
Amy's Sun Conjunct Tina's Pluto:
You draw out each other's deepest, hidden feelings, drives, needs, and ambitions. The uncovering of your inner needs and hopes is likely to cause both of you to undergo some major personality changes. You share a deep, inner bond; this is not a light or superficial relationship. You may go on a crusade together and jointly pursue shared interests with unusual intensity and dedication.
Amy's Asc. Square Tina's Jupiter:
Tina draws Amy out and makes Amy feel good, but Tina also encourages Amy to be extravagant or irresponsible at times. Tina challenges or dares Amy to be more of a gambler or more adventurous intellectually. The two of you have a lot of fun together and sometimes go overboard.
Tina's Asc. Sextile Amy's Saturn:
Amy has a steadying effect on Tina, and you are likely to build a deep friendship over time, based on reliability, trust, and standing by one another through thick and thin.
Amy's Asc. Sextile Tina's Neptune:
Helpfulness and a mutual, unselfish concern for one another's welfare eases many of the stresses or difficulties that may come up in your relationship. You have a lot of tolerance for one another's flaws.
Tina's Mercury Square Amy's Mars:
The tendency to argumentativeness, verbal abuse, and mutual misunderstanding is very strong so please heed the following advice: try to avoid abusive language towards each other, and do not try to coerce the other person to accept your views. You enjoy challenging each other's ideas, showing the weaknesses, inconsistencies, or superficialities in each other's reasoning. While the intention is good, the net result can be hurt feelings and anger. Typically there is some truth to each other's point of view, but a lack of real appreciation and respect for each other's ideas triggers argumentativeness.
Amy's Venus Sextile Tina's Neptune:
You enjoy sharing music, art, or poetry with each other. Taking evening walks, listening to music together, and watching movies together are likely to be some of your favorite shared activities. You encourage one another to relax and perhaps to be lazy or passive. Also, you accept and appreciate one another, and readily overlook one another's weaknesses.
Amy's Mars Square Tina's Saturn:
In your friendship, Amy is the eager, passionate, active and impulsive one, and Tina frequently puts on the brakes or tries to control, play down, and restrain Amy's desires and drives. Amy is likely to feel very frustrated, angry or discouraged if Tina expresses disapproval or caution too often, and this can be a source of considerable friction between you. Tina feels overwhelmed and envious of Amy's intensity and assertiveness, but instead of trying to hold Amy down, Tina should confront the fears and inhibitions that Amy's directness evokes.
Destiny and Final Outcome of Your Relationship
Composite Sun Sextile Moon:
An underlying sense of equality and true understanding sustains your friendship. You will give and receive, depend on and be depended upon, teach and learn from one another in equal measure.
Some especially fortunate or fortuitous events which occur while you are getting to know one another give you a sense of "going with the flow" which continues throughout your relationship.
Composite Sun Sextile Saturn:
One of the positives in your relationship is the sense that you can always count on each other, and that you have a steady, reliable friend in one another. Conscientiousness, loyalty and remaining friends through "thick and thin" are essential aspects of your bond.
Practical matters, work, and taking care of mundane affairs are also very much a part of it. You work well together and because you make wise financial and business choices, you could be very successful in joint ventures.
Composite Moon Trine Saturn:
Loyalty, stability, and commitment characterize this relationship, which is destined to be a long-lasting one. Because you are consistently there for one another, and can be counted on for practical as well as emotional support, a solid feeling of security builds between you. As time goes on, the history you share becomes a strong force binding you two together. Your friendship becomes a great source of strength for each of you.
Together you are fairly realistic, not expecting more than another human being is capable of providing. You'll also do well in any long-term investing or joint ownership of property.
Composite Mercury Square Uranus:
There is an electric, intellectual quality to your friendship. You'll be continually challenging or upsetting one another's ways of seeing the world, provoking each other to THINK and to remain mentally alert, active, and awake. One of you is apt to be considerably more liberal, progressive, "radical", and interested in unconventional or alternative concepts and methods than the other, who finds this both fascinating and unsettling.
When you are together you tend to speak before you really ponder what you are saying, and the intellectual give and take between you can be rather dazzling. You may feel more brilliant and quick-witted with one another than you do with other people. However, you will also find one another's company to be nerve-wracking and not very relaxing a lot of the time.
You are great for one another when it comes to brainstorming, stimulating original thinking and inspiring one another intellectually - and that is at least part of what this relationship is for.
Composite Sun Sextile Pluto:
You are undeniably a powerful duo, and the way you relate to one another affects the people around you much more than you realize.
You cannot avoid learning one another's deepest fears, desires, motives, and aspects of one another that few others have ever seen. You can't hide much from one another. This won't trouble you but instead will be the basis of an especially profound friendship.
Fateful, unexpected events which are very much beyond your control will shape your relationship to a significant extent.
Composite Moon Conjunct Pluto:
This will not be a superficial encounter! If you see each other often, you will find that you share more with each other than you do with others. Aspects of yourself that are hidden to most people are shared in this relationship. You are likely to share past experiences that were painful and difficult, and much healing can be achieved through your interaction with each other.
One of the purposes of your coming together is to dredge up unresolved emotional business and psychic blockages, in order to understand, heal, and ultimately be free of them. If your relationship is strictly of a business nature, then this process of sharing ideas and feelings of a deeply personal nature will be an additional factor that you probably had not anticipated.
Composite Venus Square Jupiter:
Openness, generosity, spreading good will, and generally having a good time together are emphasized in your relationship. If either or both of you have any tendency to be extravagant or to spend too much on pleasure, being together will really blow this out of proportion. Neither of you wants to deny yourselves any of the good things in life, and when you are in each other's company, restricting yourselves won't be easy.
Nevertheless, yours is destined to be a felicitous, affectionate, and fortunate friendship. A full and active social life, lots of "fun time", possibly vacationing or traveling together are certainly a significant part of this. And even when you face difficult times in your lives, you manage to buoy one another up and maintain hope for the future.
Composite Mars Quincunx Jupiter:
As a team you will have to balance a certain tendency to over-estimate your resources and capacities. Somehow you foster in one another an unrealistic belief in your powers, prowess, or potential for success. You will generate a lot of positive energy and expectations which can then dissipate due to poor timing or becoming discouraged over having bitten off more than you could chew. Like the minor league player who will never feel successful unless he makes it to the major league, you will need to be satisfied with what you can do or achieve or create, rather than comparing yourselves to a rather grandiose standard. Eventually the two of you can succeed in your dreams but it will take a lot more patience and hard work than may seem to be the case when you first embark on a joint project or endeavor.
Composite Saturn Trine Pluto:
Together you are capable of extreme dedication, concentration, and self-denial for the sake of a mutual goal. There is an obsessive, unrelenting quality to this. Certainly when the two of you combine forces to accomplish something, you are a formidable team capable of enduring and going the distance. You won't collapse under pressure or shirk the necessary hardships.
However, you can be excessively one-sided, or may needlessly deny yourselves certain pleasures which you may consider distractions or a frivolous waste of energy. There may be a subtle tyranny going on, either towards yourselves, or one another. Unless you supply some gentleness and adaptability, what you achieve together in concrete terms may come at too dear a cost.
Other Themes in Your Relationship
Tina's Sun in Amy's 4th house:
You may be drawn to live together and share a home together. Tina's friendship can help Amy create a strong inner foundation or stable base from which Amy can draw strength to meet challenges and achieve goals.
Amy's Sun in Tina's 3rd house:
Amy openly shares thoughts and ideas with Tina, and the two of you love to share ideas, perhaps even gossip together.
Tina's Moon in Amy's 8th house:
As your relationship develops, a powerfully emotional bonding develops. Your feelings for each other can be rather complex. Jealousy is possible and if things go wrong, you can hate each other with the same intensity that you once cared for each other.
Amy's Moon in Tina's 1st house:
Amy's family background and domestic life has a striking effect on Tina. Tina may feel "adopted" by Amy's family or find that Amy's life style and home makes Tina feel extremely comfortable and at peace.
Tina's Mercury in Amy's 3rd house:
The two of you love to chat, and often it requires effort for the two of you to be together without talking, even if there is little to discuss. Try to avoid the tendency to gossip with each other.
Amy's Mercury in Tina's 2nd house:
You enjoy planning financial strategies together, and Amy provides Tina with lots of ideas on business ventures, investments, and practical application of job-related skills.
Tina's Venus in Amy's 5th house:
Tina brings out the artist in Amy, and encourages Amy to be more expressive of affection, love, and appreciation also.
Amy's Venus in Tina's 3rd house:
Your conversations are generally pleasant and enjoyable. You argue with each other much less than you do with other people, and you both try to smooth over differences as much as possible.
Tina's Mars in Amy's 5th house:
The two of you make a great match for games, especially outdoor sports. Tina also encourages Amy to develop creative talents, and you may become involved together in creative projects.
Amy's Mars in Tina's 7th house:
Amy has a "take charge" attitude towards this relationship and comes across very strong, perhaps aggressively, at times. Tina appreciates Amy's direct, uninhibited approach to Tina, but there is a tendency to become combative and competitive with each other at times.
Tina's Jupiter in Amy's 9th house:
There is much variety and expansiveness in this friendship. You enjoy planning for the future and expanding horizons together. You enjoy traveling, vacationing, and socializing together. The rich variety of experiences that you share together enriches your outlook on life and increases your appreciation of many things that you otherwise tend to be unaware of or uninvolved in. Tina will expand Amy's world considerably. If you are involved in a joint business venture, you are likely to sometimes ignore important details in your zeal to expand.
Amy's Jupiter in Tina's 5th house:
The two of you enjoy playing games together, engaging in creative activities, hobbies, and you generally have lots of fun together. Also, Amy encourages Tina's creative talents and interests and enjoys promoting and assisting Tina's creativity, whether it be as simple as baking a cake or a major undertaking.
Tina's Saturn in Amy's 3rd house:
Tina has a nasty habit of correcting Amy. Tina sometimes gets in the mode of being Amys "editor", finding false assumptions, correcting logical inconsistencies, and interrupting Amy in the middle of a sentence in order to point out a flaw in his/her argument. Tina may not have this tendency with others, but it does happen frequently when you are together. The positive side of this tendency is that often you are able to communicate in a deeper, more honest fashion, and get to the heart of the matter at hand; the "editing" is sometimes successful and helps to clarify issues. If handled properly, you can be good at solving problems together.
Amy's Saturn in Tina's 11th house:
Amy is likely to question and criticize Tina for his/her membership or involvement (or the lack of it) in various clubs, groups, or organizations. Also, you may join some organizations together and share a mutual enthusiasm and both go through a period of disillusionment and sobering when the organization does not live up to expectations. Fortunately, these experiences are not likely to be extremely disconcerting to either of you, and both of you will feel that you mature a great deal through the experiences.
Tina's Uranus in Amy's 8th house:
The way you jointly handle finances and investments is likely to take some unusual turns and the two of you may, for example, invest in some risky ventures. Any joint investments or pooling of your assets will bring surprises and possibly upsets, especially to Amy.
Amy's Uranus in Tina's 3rd house:
There is a spontaneity and quickness to your communications that allows the two of you to convey a lot of information to each other very rapidly. Amy spurs Tina to develop new, creative ideas and you both enjoy the fresh, innovative ideas that come to you when you start brainstorming together.
Tina's Neptune in Amy's 10th house:
Tina tends to have idealistic notions of what Amy can achieve in a worldly sense, and consequently Tina is likely to encourage Amy to pursue dreams without compromise. Amy needs to be careful not to lose sight of the practical details that are needed to meet these goals.
Amy's Neptune in Tina's 5th house:
Amy enjoys acting childish and silly with Tina. You enjoy playing with each other, and there is a strong element of fantasy and imagination in your games. Tina's sense of reality may be somewhat diminished when with Amy, and overindulgence in pleasurable activities or emotions is possible.
Tina's Pluto in Amy's 8th house:
Tina may be a catalyst for profound changes in Amy's view of life, death, relationships, and also money and the sharing of resources and assets. Confronting personal demons in these areas is likely through your friendship with one another.
Amy's Pluto in Tina's 3rd house:
Amy sometimes expresses ideas and opinions in a very forceful manner to Tina, who inspires Amy to take a strong stand on issues, but may feel that Amy is too narrow-minded at times. The two of you can work well together in areas that require concentration or bold presentations such as research, marketing, etc.
Tina's Sun Opposition Amy's Jupiter:
There is a great deal of enthusiasm and optimism in your relationship. You inspire each other to expand your horizons, explore new possibilities, and improve your financial and social situation. You have a lot of good will towards each other, and also allow each other a lot of freedom. You may, however, engage in risky speculations together that are driven more by optimism and hopefulness than by well thought out plans, and consequently fall far short of your expectations. Overall, however, this astrological influence is a positive one of good will and optimism.
Tina's Sun Opposition Amy's Neptune:
There is a strong tendency to be unrealistic in your perceptions and expectations of each other. Bitter disappointments and a loss of trust and confidence in one another can arise. To prevent this from happening, you both must strive be scrupulously honest with each other, and refrain from "playing games", exaggerating or hiding things from one another. If handled positively, this astrological influence can inspire higher ideals and altruism in both of you.
Tina's Sun Square Amy's Moon:
The distinct differences in your temperaments inclines you to periods of personality clashes and misunderstandings. In particular, Amy often feels that Tina does not sympathize enough or try to really understand Amy's feelings. Both of you will have to understand and respect your differences, and make a concerted effort to harmonize your very different temperaments.
Amy's Sun Square Tina's Mars:
This is a dynamic, energetic relationship, but unfortunately also a rather aggressive and combative one at times. As long as you don't end up fighting and competing with each other, you can accomplish a great deal together. However, the aggressiveness of this relationship is prone to foster anger and hurt feelings -so be careful not to incite hostility in each other.
Tina's Sun Trine Amy's Sun:
Your basic aims and approach to life are in harmony, and the mutual respect you feel forms the basis of an excellent friendship or partnership. You feel understood, appreciated, recognized, and affirmed by one another. You stimulate, vitalize, motivate, and believe in each other.
Amy's Asc. Square Tina's Moon:
Irritations over relatively minor incidents and situations, combined with a tendency to have differing tastes, preferences, and interests may damage your friendship. You do care a great deal for each other, though, and both of you feel exceedingly bad after a quarrel. If you can be tolerant of each other's differing attitudes, interests, and lifestyles, the negative tendencies of this astrological influence will be minimized.
Tina's Asc. Trine Amy's Jupiter:
Amy makes Tina feel more optimistic and self-confident, and encourages humor, play, and freer self-expression in Tina. You both feel more expansive and relaxed in one another's company which makes the time you spend together easy, enjoyable, and rejuvenating.
Tina's Asc. Trine Amy's Neptune:
Tina's sympathy and charitable impulses are brought out by Amy and there is much mutual tolerance, sensitivity, and good will between you. You help one another in an unselfish way. If Tina is a driving, ambitious person, Amy can help Tina relax and let go of minor irritations and petty problems. If Tina is a more relaxed or passive person, Amy will reinforce those traits.
Amy's Asc. Trine Tina's Sun:
Tina motivates, encourages, and energizes Amy's self-expression, and can be very helpful to all of Amy's projects and activities. When you are together, you both feel more positive, alive, and vital.
Amy's Asc. Trine Tina's Uranus:
Amy's originality and creativity is sparked by Tina's enthusiasm, eccentricity or "crazy" side. You are both more impulsive when you are together, and more willing to take risks and appear foolish. At the least, this can be lots of fun; at best, it can be very freeing and liberating.
Amy's Moon Sextile Tina's Mars:
You probably enjoy sports or other vigorous physical activities together. You work together well as a team and can accomplish much together.
Amy's Venus Conjunct Tina's Pluto:
There is a great deal of magnetic attraction between you which can interfere with your objectivity about one another, or with any professional relationship you might have. Deep feelings of either love and appreciation or distrust and repulsion are stirred up between you, but much of this may be played out behind the scenes or in subtle ways. You are likely to wonder why your feelings toward one another are so irrationally strong. Negatively, there is a tendency for either or both of you to manipulate the other and to use your friendship for selfish purposes. Positively, an unusually deep and close relationship can develop between you, one in which there are few secrets or superficial social masks to hide behind.
Tina's Venus Square Amy's Venus:
Your tastes in art, music, and food are frequently very different and, more importantly, your approach to friendship and money is often at odds with each other. These differences are not severe and are likely to cause only minor annoyances, but nevertheless are a nuisance, leading to mutual misunderstandings.
Tina's Venus Square Amy's Pluto:
This is likely to be a love-hate type of relationship, for you tend to become intensely close and attached to one another, and you are prone to experience extreme jealousy, power struggles, or other highly-charged emotional scenes with one another. Feelings of being controlled and manipulated, or of being overly possessive towards each other are likely, and Tina in particular can feel overwhelmed or "used." There can be a deep love between you, however, if you can avoid or come to terms with these negative tendencies that exist within and between you.
Amy's Jupiter Conjunct Tina's Neptune:
You dream big and beautiful dreams together and because you stimulate one another's faith, optimism, and idealism, you feel that anything is possible. If either or both of you tend to be impractical or irresponsible, being with one another will increase that propensity, and together you are likely to harbor unrealistic hopes or ungrounded, grandiose schemes and speculations. You may become sloppy or lazy together. On the other hand, if you are fairly disciplined and well-balanced people, you will encourage each other to take a leap of faith, and to push past previous limits and boundaries that you've set for yourselves. Traveling, enjoyable escapades, or spiritual quests are an important aspect of your relationship.
Amy's Saturn Trine Tina's Uranus:
Tina loosens Amy up and prevents Amy from becoming too rigid and tight, encouraging Amy to make changes and take more leaps into the unknown. Amy has a steadying effect on Tina and helps Tina organize and direct Tina's energies into clear, definite channels, encouraging Tina to be more reliable and constant.
Tina's Neptune Sextile Amy's Pluto:
Your spiritual values and strengths harmonize with one another and this is a subtle but positive force in your relationship.